Day Three of the Leadership Challenge focused on strategies for overcoming conflict. Utilizing the skills learned in previous sessions, the students practiced formulating solutions to address difficult situations in which they may find themselves.
During the first exercise, the students were divided into groups and provided with a variety of hypothetical problems, such as “two students of different races confront each other by calling out racial slurs,” and “a teacher confronts a student with an accusation that a paper written by the student was plagiarized.” Each group then performed skits about the hypothetical situations they had been given.
Within the skits, that the students were asked to develop solutions to address the different conflicts. While conveying the tensions between “two students of difference races,” one group even broke out into song, performing their rendition of “Why Can’t We Be Friends?”
If only it were that easy.
After presenting their skits, the students reconvened. They discussed what they believe are the most serious issues facing teenagers today, and came to the conclusion that bullying is the primary source of teenage conflict. However, one student remarked that he does not think bullying is as much of a factor at Glenholme because, at this school, “everybody has a chance.”
Following the discussion, the young leaders were asked to think of an activity that could be done on campus to address bullying and other difficult social issues. As they developed their activities, the students were told to consider all of the details, such as who they would have to go to for approval, who would be involved in organizing the activities, and what types of resources they would need. In other words, it was not enough for the students to say they would promote acceptance on campus. Rather, they needed to be proactive, work together to achieve a common goal, and speak up for what they believe in.
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One activity that the students proposed is the "human knot." According to the rules, a group of individuals links hands with their arms crossed and, by communicating and working together, must figure out a way to uncross their arms without letting go of each others' hands. The students were able to complete their task successfully! |
Throughout the day, the students enthusiastically brainstormed thoughtful and creative solutions to any problem they were given. Their hard work reflects their eagerness and ability to evoke change and create a more positive environment for themselves, and for their peers.
After all, as the old saying goes... “There are no problems, only opportunities.”